Money and Aging

Growing older is easier with someone in your corner.

There’s a long list that comes with this part of life — the house, the retirement accounts, the beneficiary forms nobody has looked at in thirty years, the tax returns that somehow get more complicated rather than less. Most of that list is below, in plain language.

Some of it you can handle yourself, and I’ll tell you when that’s true. Some of it has a deadline attached and is easy to get wrong once. I do this work for a small number of families, and I work with every one of them myself.

A couple in their late seventies at home together.

Part one

While everyone’s well

This is the easier half, and the half most people skip. Almost all of it is simpler, cheaper, and less emotional to do now than later.

The same couple outdoors, looking out over the bay.

Part two

When someone passes

Most of what arrives in the first weeks is paperwork you will get through. A few things carry real money and real deadlines, and those are the ones I take off your hands.

Part three

And the tax returns themselves

Most financial advisers don’t prepare tax returns at all. I prepare and file all of these myself.

All of it by the same person who did the planning, with your whole picture already in front of me.

One of them sitting and talking with an adult child.

How I work with others

Working alongside the people
you already have

I’m not an attorney and I don’t draft documents. If you have an estate attorney, I work alongside them: I’ll read what they’ve drafted and make sure the accounts actually match it, which is often where the gap turns out to be. When something calls for legal work, I’ll say so, and if you don’t have an attorney I’m glad to suggest one.

The same goes for the health care professionals in your life. They know things I don’t, and I’d rather bring in the right person than work around them. What I hold is the financial picture, all of it, in one place, alongside everyone else helping you.

There’s nothing to decide today.

Most people who end up working with me talked once, went away, thought it over, and came back later. That’s the normal path.

The first conversation is free and runs thirty to forty-five minutes. Its only job is to work out whether I’m the right person for what you need, and if I’m not, I’ll say so. You’re welcome to bring someone you trust along: an adult child, your attorney, a friend. Many people do.

If you’re in the greater Walnut Creek area, I’m glad to come to you and meet at your own kitchen table. Anywhere else, we work just as easily by video or phone.

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